Getting Money and Keeping Money Are Two Different Skills

July 4, 2025
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Getting Money and Keeping Money Are Two Different Skills

The Game Changed. But Did You?

Getting money is easy when you're talented.
Keeping it? That takes skill, structure, and strategy.

It’s the difference between being hot for a season and wealthy for a lifetime.
Between being talked about for your highlight tape or for your legacy.

Most athletes?
They never get taught the second skill.
They master the first — and burn out.

They earn like moguls.
They spend like followers.
They retire like cautionary tales.

And you?
You're at a crossroads.

So here’s the truth — unfiltered, unflinching, and respectfully ruthless.

Let’s break down the difference between getting the bag and keeping the bag — and how to make sure your money doesn’t retire before you do.

Part I: Getting Money Is a Moment — Keeping It Is a Method

You trained. You grinded. You bet on yourself.

Then the check came.

First NIL deal. First bonus. First endorsement.
And suddenly, people look at you different — including yourself.

That money?
It changes things. But not always for the better.

Getting money is emotional.
You feel seen. You feel valued. You feel like you made it.

But here’s the trap:
Emotional money gets spent emotionally.

Your confidence goes up — and so does your spending.
You flex more. You buy things you never needed. You say yes to every request.
Not because you’re dumb — but because nobody ever trained you for this part.

You trained to get the check.
But who trained you to keep it?

The truth is, money doesn’t care how hard you worked for it.
It only respects what you do with it next.

Part II: The 6 Skills of Money-Keepers

Let’s break this down.

1. Discipline Over Ego

Most athletes lose their money because they try to prove they have it.

You buy for the look.
For the likes.
For the applause.

But money isn’t impressed by flexing — it rewards patience.

Every dollar you waste on validation is a dollar you could’ve used for freedom.

Discipline means letting your assets speak louder than your outfits.
It means living under your income, not just under the spotlight.

You want long money?
Start ignoring short-term temptation.

2. Structure Beats Hustle

You can outwork most people.
But if your money doesn’t have a system, it will disappear — no matter how hard you grind.

Smart investors don’t just hustle.
They automate, allocate, and compound.

They pay themselves first.
They have accounts for investing, saving, spending, taxes — each with a purpose.
They track income like coaches track stats.

You can’t keep what you don’t organize.

3. Financial Literacy = Financial Defense

This is the part they never taught you in school — on purpose.

What’s a Roth IRA?
How does depreciation lower your taxes?
What’s the difference between passive income and portfolio income?
Why does credit utilization matter?

You don’t need a finance degree.
You need functional knowledge that protects you from getting played.

Because you’re not just up against poverty — you’re up against predators.
Agents, managers, friends, “opportunities,” fake financial advisors.

If you don’t understand the language, you will sign things that haunt you for years.

4. Saying No Is a Wealth Skill

People see your success and assume they’re entitled to it.

"Can I borrow real quick?"
"You got it, bro."
"I just need a little help."
"Put me on."

If you can’t say no, you will bleed slowly — until the people you thought you were helping start to resent you once you can’t anymore.

Saying no isn’t selfish — it’s survival.

Your legacy depends on boundaries.
And your wealth depends on saying yes to the long term, not the guilt trip.

5. Learning How to Multiply

Saving money is a great start.
But it’s not enough.

Money loses value when it sits.
Inflation eats it. Taxes shrink it. Lifestyle creeps in.

The key is to multiply your money — with assets.

  • Real estate
  • Index funds
  • Dividend-paying stocks
  • Digital products
  • Content platforms
  • Private business deals

You don’t have to be a Wall Street shark.
You just need to understand how to put your dollars to work like teammates — each one moving toward your freedom.

6. Exit Strategy Thinking

Too many athletes think like the game will last forever.

But the truth?
The average pro career is 3 to 5 years. College? Less.

And injuries don’t wait for your money to mature.

You need an exit strategy while you’re still hot.

That means:

  • Investing while you're visible
  • Building platforms while you're active
  • Making decisions now that pay you later

You either build the parachute on the way up — or you’ll hit the ground hard when it ends.

Part III: The Common Ways Athletes Lose It All

Let’s talk specifics.
You’ve seen the headlines. But what really happened?

Here’s how most athletes go broke — and how to avoid becoming one of them.

Trap 1: Lifestyle Inflation

You go from $2,000/month to $20,000/month — and suddenly your cost of living jumps to match.

New car. New condo. New chain. New circle.
You think it’ll keep coming.

Until it doesn’t.

Solution: Keep living like you’re broke — until you’re wealthy enough not to care.
The goal is financial freedom, not financial theatrics.

Trap 2: Bad Business Deals

Everybody and their cousin becomes an “entrepreneur” when you get paid.

Restaurants. Bars. Clothing lines. Apps.
No strategy. Just vibes.

You become the checkbook. They become the excuse.

Solution: Invest in things you understand — or in people with receipts, not dreams.
If you don’t understand it, don’t fund it.

Trap 3: Taxes and Legal Mistakes

Athletes often don’t realize:
The IRS doesn’t play.

You earn six figures, spend like you keep all of it, then realize half was theirs.
Then comes the interest. The fees. The letters.

Solution: Work with a legit CPA who specializes in athletes or entrepreneurs.
Pay quarterly taxes. Know your write-offs. Don’t try to “hide” income. The IRS sees everything.

Trap 4: Clout-Fueled Decisions

Posting a rented Lambo.
Buying followers.
Competing with other athletes over chains, not net worth.

You make choices for likes — not for leverage.

Solution: Stay grounded.
Your self-worth has to be higher than your market value.

Part IV: The Money Blueprint — Step by Step

Ready to move different?

Here’s how you shift from just getting money to keeping money like a king:

Step 1: Track Everything

You can’t fix what you don’t see.

Know what’s coming in.
Know what’s going out.
Know your net worth like you know your stats.

Use an app. Use a spreadsheet. Use a whiteboard.
Just don’t fly blind.

Step 2: Split Your Money Into Buckets

Every dollar you earn needs a destination.

Try the 50/30/20 method:

  • 50%: Necessities (living, taxes, etc.)
  • 30%: Investments (assets, education, growth)
  • 20%: Flex/Spend (travel, gear, fun)

Or build your own system — but build something.

Step 3: Save for Taxes. Always.

Set aside 30% of every check before you touch it.
Put it in a separate account. Act like it doesn’t exist.

Or one day… you’ll wish it didn’t.

Step 4: Invest Consistently

Pick 1–2 investment vehicles and master them.

Start with:

  • Index funds (S&P 500)
  • Real estate (buy a duplex, live in one, rent the other)
  • Content creation (build your brand, monetize knowledge)

Don’t wait until you “feel ready.”
Start now. Start small. Scale later.

Step 5: Protect Your Brand

Your name is an asset.
Your image has equity.
Your story is a product.

Trademark your name.
Build a website.
Create your own content pipeline.

You are the business. Now act like it.

Step 6: Educate Yourself Weekly

Read one finance article a week.
Watch one business podcast a week.
Ask your accountant real questions every month.

Compound your knowledge the same way you want to compound your income.

Final Word: Play the Wealth Game Like You Play the Game

Discipline.
Focus.
Strategy.
Execution.

You already have these traits.
You’ve applied them to your sport. Now it’s time to apply them to your wealth.

Getting money is a result of talent.
Keeping money is the result of character and choices.

So choose wisely.

They want to use you, market you, and then move on when you’re no longer valuable.

But when you learn to keep the bag — and grow it —
they can’t touch you.

Because now you’re not just an athlete.

You’re an investor. A leader. A legacy.

Let the world chase the spotlight.
You? Chase ownership.

Written by Artizsoul Newsroom